We are individuals and must express ourselves individually. We are not to judge the other, we are not to meddle or criticize in their affairs. We are not to love some people more and some less.
However, we tend to get involved in our associates affairs, we want to control our loved ones, or at least give them advise. We want to fix their problems; we want to be the savior of the day.
Remember, we shall not demand or control others and thus no one should demand, control, or plan for us. No one should judge our actions, not even our loved ones. And therefore, we must also observe this law and not judge, control and push our convictions onto others. It’s a two-way street. As the old saying goes: Live and let live!
When it comes to our spouses, we must allow our partners in life to be themselves. We shouldn’t stifle their vision or make demands so they will change to our liking.
The truth is, they’re also perfect and good in nature and are doing the best to their ability. Just like each one of us, they are working on discovering themselves and the purpose of their lives. It's all individual. We have intertwined for only a brief moment in time. So, let’s enjoy this ride together, lovingly.