When we see people always wanting more and more ‘things’ and nothing is ever good enough we can surely tell that there is a lack of something within their Soul. It triggered me to explore the thought of ‘hoarding’ or/and the amassing of things; the “I want more” syndrome.
 
What makes a person so desperate that they hold on to everything including what most of us call trash? Studies have shown that this type of behavior is prevalent in people over the age of 40 and more so in men than in woman. It also shows that there is a connection to childhood abuse; proving traumatic events are positively correlated with the severity of hoarding. Fear.
 
The amassing of possessions, even if of no value, masks a greater problem of emotional imbalance. A hiding behind the mountains of trash, so to speak.
 
In the lesser offense of ‘wanting more and more’ it also shows a fear of lack. This fear of not having enough, or being able to lose your possessions, a wrong sense of materialism and what it means to them, a ‘doomsday is just around the corner’ attitude all contribute to wanting more. It’s like a security blanket; the individual can hide behind their possessions. However, in reality, only the mental sense of abundance can save you and me, and everyone, from lack. It’s our mental sense that governs our lives, and our thoughts of wealth will bring fortitude into our experiences.
 
Hoarding or the amassing of goods is a lack of knowing that the Universe is abundant, and that we are part of this abundance. Fear of not having, and clinging on to material possessions as the symbol of “having” shows that we believe in the possibility of ‘lack’. Let go of material things, they mean nothing in the vast ocean of Universal Consciousness.
 
Abundance is a mental state not a material one!
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Today I leave you with the wisdom of Dr. Murphy:
 
"You are Life expressed. Life became you, and you are an instrument for Life's expression. You are very important to Life, and you must recognize the fact that Life is intensely interested in your welfare, development, and unfoldment. You have a special work to do here; moreover you are different from any other person in the world. You look different, your thoughts, your feelings and beliefs are different. You have a special natural endowment, unique capabilities, and special inherent gifts.  You are equipped to express Life in a way that no one else in all the world can.
 
Learn to do what you can and should do, and you will have fulfilled your destiny, your reason for existing. Fill your niche in Life, and you will feel your importance in the scheme of things. You are endowed with the qualities and faculties of imagination, thought, reason, and the power to choose and act. Life desires to express through you all Its glorious qualities of energy, vitality, peace, love, joy, and wisdom."

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Every so often I still reminisce about the good old days, growing up in a country that literally gave birth to the Christmas tree. The custom of the Christmas tree can be traced back to the 16th century, in Strasbourg, Germany (now part of France), where devout Christians would bring trees into their homes, laden with fruits like apples, nuts, dates, and colored paper. Later, around the 18th century, candles were added to illuminate the tree. However, at the time this custom was largely considered to be a Protestant tradition and only eventually gained wider acceptance as immigrants moved towards other Catholic areas, including Austria.
 
After the practice had spread throughout Europe it was not until the Revolutionary War that German settlers hauled trees from surrounding woods and decorated them to enjoy the Holidays. Nowadays, the tree is more a symbol of goodwill, hope, and family togetherness and not exclusive to any one religion.
 
Of course, in modern times the trees are decorated with much more than food, besides the occasional American touch of Popcorn and Candy Cane. Imagination and the personal taste of all cultures in our beloved melting pot are incorporated into the decor, and of course the candles were replaced with electric lights. I still get a grin on my face when I think of my first Christmas in Los Angeles in the early 80’s. Not knowing any better and wanting to experience a little bit of ‘home’, I adorned the tree with real candles, which my girlfriend quickly extinguished and educated me on the danger of home fires, especially in California!
 
This year over 33 million American families will celebrate the holidays with a real Christmas tree and countless more with an artificial tree.
 
Today, countries like Germany and Austria, still being touched by long ago traditions, host a large number of ‘Christkindl Markt’s’ with handcrafted glass ornaments, beautiful arts and crafts, German foods (Lebkuchen, strudel, chestnuts, and special cookies) and Gluehwein (hot red wine with spices) as well as colorful toy Nutcrackers and Advent calendars. Blankets of glistening snow and below freezing temperatures won’t keep you away. It enhances the feeling of an era of a gentler, more tender society. The true spirit of Christmas still lingers in the cold winter air. To all of you, no matter what faith - Happy Holidays!
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I wrote this article in 2014 for AWARENESS Magazine – it is still valid today!
 
Living in Forgiveness – thoughts about self and the “other”
 
Being absorbed in the day to day writings and studying has been an eye-opener for me over the years, and every so often a forgotten disposition rears its ugly head. It’s mostly something from the distant past, a slight resentment or memory of an unpleasant experience - or in some cases a relationship quarrel that needs attention. But what do we do with this negative spark? Most of the time we shove it back under the rug, whisk it away like it’s no big deal. Or is it?
 
A couple of days ago I was reminded that whisking away old hurts doesn’t solve the underlying issue. It only prolongs it. Stuffing our negative emotions back down our own throats, puts them right back onto the shelving of our subconscious mental store house. The cure is forgiveness. But that is easier said than done.
 
Dr. Joseph Murphy, metaphysics teacher, stated: “Forgiveness is love in action. Without love in our hearts, we stumble and fall.” This sounds reasonable and lovely, however, forgiving an apparent ‘wrong’ seems to be a daunting task, and therefore we continue to nurture this seed of pain until it grows into a giant weed, and yes – we stumble and fall all over again.
 
James Allen, another one of my favorite metaphysical writers, states an interesting viewpoint. He said:
“Why this continual retaliation and forgiveness? Why this tormenting anger against another and then this repentance and forgiveness? Is not forgiveness the taking back of one’s anger, the giving up of one’s resentment; and if anger and resentment are good and necessary why repent of them and give them up? If it is so beautiful, so sweet, so peaceful to get rid of all feelings of bitterness and utterly and wholly to forgive, would it be not more beautiful and sweet and peaceful never to grow bitter at all, never to know anger, never to resent as evil the actions of another, but always to live in the experience of that pure, calm, blissful love which is known when an act of forgiveness is done, and all unruly passion toward another is put away?”
 
So my question is: why do we get into a fight with another person in the first place? Even if someone attacks us, why do we react rather than turning the other cheek? By reacting and dwelling on our hurt feelings we only exaggerate the problem and multiply the negative emotions. We are the ones entertaining the hurt and the anger; we are the ones suffering the consequences. Why not stop?
 
This question is especially important in relationships, where two people have come together as partners. These two people have sincerely committed to each other. They promised to love each other for better or worse. But then, one day, one or both of the partners make a mistake. They fear retaliation and start to muddle the truth. The lies eventually explode. It feels mighty personal, betrayal at its best.
 
Of course there are also the unspeakable crimes of child abuse and many other so-called unforgivable sins. There is the habitual liar. The one who tells you either what you want to hear, or what brings him the most benefit (believe me not for long), or worst case scenario, the addict, who will say whatever it takes to get the dollars necessary to feed his addiction. Can we forgive all of this? Should we? And if the answer is yes – can we?
 
Let’s start at the beginning. I obviously used extreme examples to make a point. I was not talking about the smaller things which are easier forgiven, and we can’t even call it forgiveness because they most likely are petty in nature. For example, someone said something that hurt our feelings and so on. Hurt feelings come from taking things personally and we do it all the time. We think it’s all about us, don’t we? We think that the other person is out to hurt or attack us, instead of realizing that their actions toward us reflect their issues and pains. It’s really about them.
 
So where does forgiveness come in? What is there to forgive? Is it our own lack of self-worth that needs a shot in the arm? Is it our doubts and fears of failure, loneliness, and insecurities that need healing? What do we have to forgive and whom? Do I forgive myself or the other? Or both?
 
We must forgive all and any so-called wrong doings. Why? Because it is you and I who will suffer if we continue to hold on to the grudges and pains we feel. It is us who will develop physical ills like arthritis or stiffness of any kind, caused by resentment. It is us who will experience an inharmonious and unhappy state of mind until our bitterness is solved. It is not worth it! We all deserve to be happy and live the life we imagined for ourselves. Forgiveness must be part of this life!
 
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ULRIKE is an Austrian author/writer and metaphysics teacher, who is actively seeking the truth of life. She loves to visit inspirational places and commune with like-minded people. ULRIKE has written 4 books and over 60 articles on subjects spanning from right thinking, the power of your mind to inner peace and calm through a positive mental attitude. www.modernthoughttheories.com